Telling the Future With Tarot

Who doesn't wonder about their future, their #possibilities and whether or not they are on the right path. Sometimes we do find the reassurance we are searching for, through friends, lover, co- workers, family members, etc. However, as much as all of them, with their best intention do want to help us out, at the end we still need a deeper understanding.

#Tarot card and the art of reading them, do have the power to guide us. They tell us a history and they can easily express what's in your subconscious, what's in front of you, what your fears and worries are and what happen to you before and after if you take a certain road. These are more can be decoded to you with Tarot card.

By looking at the cards we can see that all of them carry their own power, their own individuality. Here are some of the elements you need to look for in order to better understand what's behind someone's question.

- Background
- Numbers
- Color
- Images
- Surrenders
- Outfits
- Words
- Symbols...

These are just some of the aspect that must be taken into consideration when doing a reading. Of course, there are some cards like the 8 of wands that do not have a person in the picture. This type of card needs to me understood in a different way. (I will talk more about this subject in another post) For now, let's just remember that reading cards its like watching a great painting at the Museo. The Artist through his portray its communicating what it is happening within him, whether he is or not aware that's different but underneath his creation we can see his Soul. Tarot card does have the power to reveal what we are not consciously aware, if the person doing the reading knows his / her card as I do.

For more information about my readings, please visit me at www.elenaburnett.com . If you are in L. Angeles area, don't forget to #book me for your next event too.

This Is How Many Dates You Need To Determine Chemistry

Ever been on a fourth or fifth #date with someone, only to realize that you’re having a hard time deciding where things are going? You need to tap into your chemistry.

Let me first explain to you very quickly what #chemistry really is, so you can have a better understanding of what you need to do with a prosperous candidate. What we call “chemistry” sometimes takes time to develop. Chemistry is an exchange of DNA—a reaction we experience when someone is close by. This wonderful feeling can’t be controlled by our rational mind; it is given to us by nature and is activated by pheromones—the scented #sex #hormones that make us bond physically with someone just by smelling them. It’s that great! 
Sometimes the connection between two people starts up by being very strong but then dissipates (the flame burns out). Other times it takes more than one date for the vibe to appear—for the essence of this other person to take us over.

Here Is What I Want You to Think About When Going Out With Someone New:

1. Give them three days. Go out with them three times. Don’t just give them one day or two—give them three. Let the hormones kick in.
2. Listen and observe without putting your own #thoughts, #feelings, and desires into the equation
3. Follow your instinct, which means feel your feelings in your stomach. The first impression about what he or she says to you will be felt, and you will know it. Please, don’t rationalize or justify  harsher words. Men say exactly what they are thinking, usually. This also goes for #women in their masculine energy. So you can have a better idea about what I am talking about, in the next chapter I will explain more about masculine and feminine energy and how they interact.

For now, let me show you a list of men (and women) who should avoid going out with more than once:

1. If the guy is married.
2. If the guy is going through a breakup (meaning he has been single for less than six months).
3. If the guy has been separated less than a year—he is still grieving.
4. If the guy has a girlfriend (more than a year)—he is officially in a relationship.
5. If the guy travels a lot for work. Five days a week is not acceptable—he is married to his job.
6. If the guy lives in another state—you are not compatible.
7. If the guy tells you he is a player or has commitment issues—he is warning you.
8. If you are having a cybernetic relationship. (You first need to meet the guy, see if there is chemistry, and see whether or not your body and his body like each other before building a castle in the air).
9. If the #guy is a coworker (please don’t mix work with romance), he most likely won’t last in the long run.
10. If the guy doesn’t have a #job to sustain himself

Please, don’t waste your precious time with someone who doesn’t have the time to invest in you and the #relationship. Remember, in life, it is not who you attract but who you keep that matters. You are responsible for what you welcome and keep. Your experience is the result of what you think, say, and do.

This article has been extracted from my already self published ebook “ how to find the love of your life in three dates “  

When Mr. Right Turns into Mr. Wrong: 4 ‘ Ideals ’ Qualities in a Man that Could Actually Work Against Him

When Mr. Right Turns into Mr. Wrong

4 ‘ Ideals ’ Qualities in a Man that Could Actually Work Against Him

Sometimes, your Mr. Right perhaps not be as wonderful as you have thought. Some of the great Mr. Right traits, when taken to extremes can certainly affect your relationship.

Many women tend to picture their Mr. Right as someone who is sensitive, generous and protective. However, as many get to find out, often, these very characteristics can make their Mr. Right into Mr. Wrong. Below are some of the examples of Mr. Right that embody an ‘ideal’ quality in a man that could actually work against him and ultimately drive you crazy.

Mr. Right Is #Generous

As you met him first, your Mr. Right may have been flattering you with expensive gifts. As your relationship develops, you discover that he is munificent towards everyone he meets. If you are considering spending your entire life with him, you need to know if he is responsible with money or not. You would certainly need money to have a better lifestyle and meet your needs. If Mr. Right fritters away everything he has, would you be able to make your ends meet?

Mr. Right is Ambitious and Motivated

The reason #women are attracted to ambitious, motivated and hardworking man is because many assume that their Mr. Right has got his priorities all sorted out. However, what happens when you find that he is more committed to work than to you? You simply cannot remember the last time you went on a dinner together. Or when you had a vacation together, he continuously was networking with others so that he could grab more business his way.

Mr. Right Respects His Family

You have to take the matters seriously if the smallest needs of his family comes before you bigger ones. It could be that when it comes to choosing between you and his family, Mr. Right will always choose his family of origin. Make sure he is already a growing up man, ready to build his own family and make his own decisions.

Mr. Right Is Polite

Mr. Right is absolutely charming, genuinely interested in what you have to say, polite and gracious. As the time passes, you realize that even if you do something that is not right, just like casually flirting with someone, Mr. Right gets upset, but do not say a word. Considering the extremes, your man is either too weak-willed to oppose with anyone or he is too anxious to expresses his true feelings. Eventually, if you want him to, he is unlikely to stand up for himself even, let alone you.

In the end, it is totally up to you to identify if the issues, as set out above, exist anywhere in your relationship. Afterwards, you can certainly try helping your Mr. Right redress the balance so that you can live with the same man of your “perfect fairy tale ” instead of making him go Mr. Wrong.

For more information about my #work, visit me at www.elenaburnett.com . You can also find great information in some of my #dating and #relationships #ebooks/books at Amazon http://www.amazon.com/Elena-Burnett/e/B00FVKATJ6/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_1

The Texting Dating Syndrome: 3 Simples Steps to Stop it!

It always fascinates me to see how #technology has taken over most people around the world, dehumanizing them to the point where now communication between #sexes has been reduced to the “Art of Texting”. You look around and you see couples sitting together, but totally disconnected to each other because they are engaged in a never ending agenda with their phones. 

I get to see many young girls, as well as more mature women, who meet me for a consultation. Quite a few of them are very proud and happy at having a man who is constantly texting them during the day or week. While at first glance, it all seemed okay, but on closer inspection, what was missing here was the fact that the guy was not really giving as much of his attention as you would have thought he did.

On the contrary, many women want to think that texting is actually a sign that a guy cares for you, but, and yes I did say BUT again. The question you should ask yourself is, “How many times do you actually see the guy? How many times does he call you or ask you out? And please, don’t tell me his texts addiction counts as a sign of how much he really wants to be with you. Let’s be real!!! 

Women, and that goes for me too, we all need attention, we all need to be heard and that pretty much means, you need to sit with us and at least pretend that you are very much interested in what we say.  When a woman is able to talk about her pain - and pain in this context means all the things that are emotionally bothering her, such as her fears, worries, complaints, criticism, etc. - she feels loved. So texting doesn’t quite have the power to fulfill a role that is basic for a woman in order to feel understood. Women need to talk and share and texting cuts that option out of the equation. 

However, the good news is, I am here to help you get out of this nonsensical texting trap. 

So let me share with you 3 Simples Steps that you must follow, when your date, lover, partner, etc uses his texting excuse on you.


1. One or Two Texts are OK - More than that is a Sign of Being Too Impersonal. 

If all he does is to communicate with you via #text, please don’t get trapped in his #game. Let him know that you’d rather talk over the phone when he is available.


 2. When Texting is All He Does or Wants 

Always validate a man for doing things his way, even if you don’t agree. However, if he disregards your concerns of wanting to talk on the phone rather than just texting, then stop the game there itself. Stop texting him, he will get the message and change his strategy if he really is interested in you.
  

3. Stop Giving Him Emotional Support with Your Ping Pong Texting

The more you get caught up in his texting games, lesser will be his need to ask you out or to pick up the phone. Why would he? You are already giving him the emotional support he needs. His Ego is already inflamed, but what about your own emotional needs? You still didn’t get the chance to have a real conversation with your man, and yes, that for us means able to talk, talk, talk and talk. How is talking even possible through texting?

He, on the other hand, is more than happy not having to deal with your emotions, he is happy to be in silence. A #man doesn’t really need to talk if he is not getting something out of it. So, texting is actually a good invention made for a man if he doesn’t want to deal with you face to face. So, please again, stop the game now! You have the power.

To know more about my work, visit me at www.elenaburnett.com. You can also find valuable information about how #men think and feel about #love and #sex through some of my books at #Amazon.  http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_2?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=elena+burnett

For a private consultation regarding your dating or relationship situation, check my web.

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