Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Your Future with Tarot Cards. What is it in the Cards for You? Find out now!

For all of you that are new to my page, I want to let you know a little bit about me and my work. I am a relationship and dating specialist who happen to use tarot cards to help you out with your issues at home. How? Well , I can easily find out a lot of valuable information about your situation in your currrent relationship or future or past one. The cards talks to me and they allow me to dig a little deeper into what is going on in your life at the moment. Then I can put my knowledge , studies and experience about relationship and dating challenges into the equation for better results.

It is amazing how powerful these two elements the tarot cards and my relationship and dating tips and tools can do for you.

I will like to invite you to visit my website under http://elenaburnett.com/services and check the window about  "my work in Oranum ".  Oramum is an international psychic center where I have been working for the last year. There you can find some of the testimonials of many of the people I have already helped with my approach. 

To book a consultation with me, I offer different packages, all of them very affortables and of course I can always be reached through Skype. Don't lose the opportunity to get the help you need and remember MY APPROACH WORKS!

I will be waiting for you.

Elena Burnett


Thursday, May 16, 2013

Advice on Relationships - The Perfect Relationship.

Relationships as we all know are not easy, that is a fact, however, lets be realistic about what we should or shouldn't expect from our love one.  Here is a couple of questions for you to think about.

Does this alleged perfect relationship exist in real life or does it only reside in urban legend? Who doesnʼt dream of finding that wonderful perfect soul mate that has all the requirements to make us feel complete and whole and loved and needed? 
Who doesnʼt wonder if such a person only exists in fantasies and fairy tales? More profoundly, does another human being actually have the power to create the perfect ambiance for us to feel safe and secure and whatever else our soul is looking for? Well, for starters, no relationship is actually ʻperfectʼ, regardless of our projections as we walk down the street by ourselves and everywhere we look we see perfect couples in love like some kind of cruel Valentineʼs Day joke (the grass is always greener, right?). 

However, ʻperfectionʼ in and of itself is nothing more than an illusion of the mind. Relationships generally look wonderful at the beginning, just until we get comfortable enough to show our true selves, that is our moods, short comings, fears, worries, frustrations, anxieties, and everything else that makes us human.

So then what is a ʻperfect relationshipʼ in the real world? Itʼs a relationship in which both partners have evolved past the pain and struggling of trying to turn our significant other into the “perfect“ human being (mostly while we do NO work on ourselves!) It comes about when we finally surrender to the idea of wanting to change the other person. That is to say, when we finally accept that which heretofore had been wholly unacceptable. In this moment there is a Zen-like bliss where acceptance of imperfections, both real and perceived, pass - nay surrender - to the need to control that which is outside ourselves.
Easier said than done. For if your partnerʼs faults literally make you sick or turned off then you must leave. For your own health and sanity you must make haste and vacate the love nest. Their faults (as yours also) are just a fragment of who they are as a person. Their shortcomings are just another aspect of another broken part in them and they are not alone in this as the same can be said of each and every one of us. These shortcomings of course are not the whole person, but if it proves impossible to come to terms with these character deficits, or even discuss them and find amutually beneficial solution to them, then you must move on. Give yourselves space and agree to part amicably, with neither person taking things (too) personally.

My closing suggestion is to consider whether or not, on a bad day, your significant other carries not less than a fifty percent value to you. If thatʼs the case in the worst of times, keep them. One of the biggest problems in relationships these days is that people give up on their partners too soon. However, what nobody seems to understand is that the intrinsic nature of relationships is similar to that of the roller coaster: full of ups and downs and twists and turns. In many cases it is possible to fail out of love but if you stay long enough and ride these cycles through, all the while setting better and healthier boundaries, you might just surprise yourself as to how things turn out. Nothing truly worthy comes easily and everything requires hard work filled with frustration and disappointment. But if you stay the course you might just ʻstumble ontoʼ the Perfect Relationship!

For a private consultation about your relationship or dating situation, email me at elenaburnettcoach@gmail.com or visit me at www.elenaburnett.com

Monday, May 6, 2013

Advice on Relationships - Loving Him

“Can I love him without getting hurt or without losing myself?” Here is a situation we are all very familiar with, so lets first understand what love really is or it is suppose to be. 

What girl hasnʼt been exposed to this quintessential quandary at least once and most likely repeatedly throughout her adult life? You finally meet that someone special then start to feel your own sense of self slip away to the same degree to which you fall in love with him. Isnʼt there something we can do so we donʼt get hurt when our hearts get all fluttery, when someone comes alone and makes us feel special, when his mere presence turns our world upside down? Do we have any control over what we are feeling? Or should we simply ignore this feeling and let ourselves get swept up in the waves of his passion?

The unfortunate answer, ladies, is that there is no easy way around this. Losing yourself is a distinct possibility and getting hurt more so, however it doesnʼt have to be that way. If you have the emotional fortitude and mental resilience to work on yourself and look into the true nature of things, youʼll notice that nobody has the power to hurt you. No one can force you to leave your center (something you have to do in order to lose yourself), so donʼt do it! Of course this is the ideal, something Zen masters train for years to attain. For us mere mortals, we will experience pain whether we have a one night stand or spend fifty years with someone. So what exactly is this pain?

The type of pain and loss of self we are referring to comes from the pattern of the never-ending desire to bask in the presence of the other person. We long for them when we are with them and we long for them when we are apart! We long for the sensations and feelings this new person has awakened in us and we long for getting more out of them. In fact an addiction is what forms, and hence the pain follows. This most commonly occurs in the courtship stages and beginning of intimacy stages, however it is by no means limited to that. This pain can arise at any stage of a relationship, simply depending on the energy between the two individuals.

So I ask you: Are you willing to take a risk on another human being in the name of love? Or better yet I challenge you: Take the risk! You will at times be disappointed and frustrated by their quirks and idiosyncrasies and at other times enamored and awestruck by their beauty and compassion. And then youʼll learn heʼs just a mirror of yourself. You both must be willing to do your part at self improvement. He must be equally committed to taking a risk on you and letting his guard down enough to do so. If you have this kind of guy already, heʼs a keeper. And if not, stay pure of heart and positive of intention but donʼt cast your pearls before the swine. Wait till the right one comes along to take the risk.

If youʼre currently with a guy who youʼre not too sure about, donʼt make the mistake of thinking that maybe youʼll get him to change in the future when he fully realizes how wonderful you are. Be realistic, remember that pain in romance has never been avoided, and cut your losses at the earliest possible moment. Love brings wonderful feelings but does not come free of charge and the price tag is usually paid in pain. Love has the power to make us touch the moon and fall straight back down to the ground all at the same time. In short, romantic love is painfully beautiful.

I have gone through this process so many times and on some occasions I could have avoided the drama since the other person wasnʼt willing to take a risk on me (as I was willing to take on him). In other cases, we both took a risk on each other and gave it a sincere effort. And on certain other instances, no matter how I tried to handle it, I just couldnʼt get the simultaneous beautiful feeling/awful pain out of my chest. My whole body would shake just by being in his presence. I was literally out of control and thatʼs exactly what love does to us: Love makes us lose our mind; love makes us change; love makes us want to leave everything behind for that special person.

So, relax and take a deep breath and remember one thing: love is all that matters. There is nothing more marvelous than failing in love together. It is an experience you mustnʼt let pass you by. Let your heart take charge of what your logical mind canʼt possible control. Fall into the virtues of love.

For a private consultation about your relationship or dating issues please email me at elenaburnettcoach@gmail.com or visit me at www.elenaburnett.com

Saturday, May 4, 2013

Elena's Tarot Reding , Numerology and Relationship on Camera

Elena's is doing readings on camera everyday not matter what part of the world you happen to be located. You would be able to see her alive and have a reading with her.

Don't wait... Go find her on Oranum she is doing a 2 weeks promotional price. Take advantage of this opportunity. She will help you find clarity on your personal, emotional and finantial situation. She has been working with men and women for more than 20 years helping them with their issues at home.  For more information about Elena, don't hesitate to visit her at www.elenaburnett.com