10 Deadly Dating Mistakes

I have been single on many occasions and I have tried to approach the dating arena in many different ways. With some men, it was ok to be the assertive one and with others there was no question about it, he was in the lead.

Men come in many different packages but it is important to know, as a woman, the way in which you would like to mate. Are you looking for a masculine leading man or are you more interested in a passive, creative and easy going man?  Both types of men are acceptable, as long as you are aware of the type of men you are attracting and why (I will talk more about this subject in another blog). Whether you choose to do all the work and go after the guy of your dreams or you just sit back and let him come your way, here are 10 things you must avoid when going out with men in general.

1. Don't Tell Him What Restaurant or Place To Go. 
Let him do the work and just follow his direction.

2. Don't Boss The Servers Around.
Let him know what you need and let him take care of you.

3. Don't Compete with Him When He Is Advertising.
Let him brag about his accomplishments. He is not interested in how smart you are, yet.

4. Don't Start Sharing Yourself By Being Critical About Other People.
If you are going to share yourself, do it in a constructive way, otherwise you will turn him off.

5. Don't Talk about Exes or Other Men.
Some women love to brag about exes or guys to make themselves sound popular, to make themselves be seen as very desirable. Big mistake.

6. Don't Brag About How Much Money You Make or How Important Your Position Is.
If you sound too independent and self sufficient he will not see you as a feminine woman who can be vulnerable around him.

7. Don't Ask Him Too Many Questions.
Let him be the interviewer.

8. Don't Reach Out To Pay Half Of The Bill.
He is the one taking you out, let him do his work.

9. Don't Ask Him When You Will See Him Again.
You have just met him, if he doesn't call you back, move on.

10. Don't Feel Like You Owe Him Something, Because He Took You Out.
A simple "Thanks" will do.

I have made most of these mistakes with some of my dates in the past. Now I understand I was coming on too strong. It is easy to be judged by others, especially if we don't know the other person so well, that is why we need to try our best not to give the wrong impression when meeting someone new. We won't have another chance.

Reread these 10 mistakes and think for a moment if it is possible that you might be doing some of them. Think how important or how much you care to see this new person and whether or not you are willing to do your 50% correctly. If that is the case, memorize these easy steps and you will get better results in your dating life.

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