How do men think about love?

How do men think of love?

Do men actually believe in love? What is a man’s perception of relationship based on love? These few questions about men and love actually summarize the curiosity of every woman who has invariably spent innumerable hours of her life searching for valid answers to these questions. Men and love, these two terms don’t seem to go along very well, at least as far as the common perception is concerned. Since the very inception of human life, it was the feminine part of the planet that was considered more involved and relatable to things like love and relationships. Men, on the other hand are perceived to be more practical when it comes to relationships and their take on love is something that is rarely discussed.

So, how do men actually think about love or do they even think about it? Well, the answer to this very question is yes, absolutely yes! Men do think about love, more often and more deeply than any woman can think of but their journey to love is not as emotionally charged as that of a woman. Unlike women, most men don’t take the gradual journey of falling in love i.e. they are either in it on the very first day or not at all. For instance, a woman might end up falling for a guy she is friends with following a gradual journey where she develops emotional attachment for that person which is definitely not the case how love for men works. If a man notices a woman and finds her attractive enough for his standards, it is more likely that he’ll end up in love with her given right conditions and situations. However, in case he doesn’t consider a woman good enough for his standards in the very first instance then, he wouldn’t fall for her anyways.

A man no matter how much he is in love would never be as expressive as a woman in love and that’s how he is made up. He would love his woman to the moon and back but still won’t be very expressive about it because a man’s ideal way of loving is not talking about it but showing it to his partner with his gestures. Most of the men feel and believe that love is not an emotion that needs too much talking and hence restrain them from being too chatty about it. Women often end up complaining about how careless their man behaves while being in a relationship and conclude that he doesn’t love or care for them. All these conclusions are nothing but mere assumptions that have no definite grounding. Relationships of love please a man as much as a woman and being forgetful or careful about a particular date or event doesn’t mean that a man doesn’t value you or your love in his life. The truth is, men aren’t multitaskers as women and can concentrate majorly on one thing at a time, you give him too many things to ponder upon and he collapses. 

So, men do feel the depth and emotional gravity of love and value relationships as much as women, the only thing to take note of here is that men perceive love differently and express it in their own unique way that needs a little understanding on the part of every woman. 

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