Why Men Don't Need To Talk?

We all know how much we women need to talk, but what is the reason for this? Why we must talk non stop? 

Well, what if I told you that's the only way we can release stress? When we talk and you guys take the time to listen without fixing us, we feel loved and understood. So what is the secret for men to be able to listen without feeling frustrated? I know guys, women can be irritated at times but if you do it right, you might get more SEX.

Here are a few steps for you guys to follow when she starts talking to you:

a) Let her know in advance the amount of time you are willing to listen. Be specific. Otherwise we will keep going.

b) Don't fix her problems in the moment, let her talk. When a women has the chance to share her feelings she feel connecting with her man.

c) Ask her questions about the situation she is sharing with you. This can be hard for you guys since you are built to solve problems. Well, here is a great opportunity for you to cherish your woman.

d) And lastly... Reflect back to her whatever she my be expressing. Only then she will feel understood.
I promise you guys, if you train yourself to know how to listen to your woman, she will be more vulnerable to your needs too.

Ok, so now we have figured out how men can improve their listening skills with women. What about men not wanting to share their thoughts and feelings with women? What can we women do about it?

I first need to let you know women, that men actually talk more than women do.
I know you don't believe me but they do! What do you think they do at work? They TALK. Why? Because they are competing, they are constantly being judged and they know they need to appear to be the best. So the question is, what do they do when they finish work? Just go to any park around your house and you will see where men are. They are releasing their stress from work, and here's how:
- Jogging
- Walking
- Playing soccer, basketball, etc
- Playing with their dogs
- Just being in nature

They know the only way to feel better is if they do something about it. We call it "getting into action" and that is exactly how they release their stress.

So women, releasing stress for us is the equivalent as talking non stop, so what do you need to do?

You got it! Call your female friends, take the time to feel better about yourself. Don't expect your guy to be your savior, don't put that pressure on him. He will thank you for it. 

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