Welcome back to my blog. Today I will like to talk about this dilemma we all face from time to time. The anxiety of not knowing if this person, this wonderful human being we are so attracted to, find us appealing, whether this man likes us. I don't want to say the word "want " because that's an invitation I don't want you to give him yet. At least, we don't want to give him the wrong impression. It is ok if he wants to be the one thinking about sexual desire since that's the first thing that will bring him close to you the fact that he likes what he sees.
Well, What I did learn in all these years of melting and meeting people from all over the world its that most of us do have an idea of what we like in another person. Some people don't actually have a type, they just go with the flow and see... For others, we have a mental picture of how our " Dream girl or guy " should look like . We even keep choosing the same kind of partner. I myself have always had the same taste in men and I have always had great boyfriends too. However, I do see that youth gives us a lovely gift , in our early years we pretty much can have anyone we wish to have. Beauty comes with youth, so I will say that if you are young and are taking care of yourself just fine, the chances are that you'll have guys liking you easily.
Now, let's no go too far ahead in the game and start imagining the perfect wedding with this new guy. Let's be realistic. Lets first attract the guy toward us and that goes with the eyes, the first connection starts right there. You see, you MUST make yourself available so he can approach you. Remember, men hate rejection even though some of them won't take it personally, for some it is kind of scary to put themselves out there and be rejected. Let's face it girls take balls to do it ( even though I already know tons of women who will make the first move ). However, let's focus on the game of attracting them to us because this is what this blog is about, about letting them lead.
So here its what you need to do.
- Look at his eyes for at least 5 seconds. ( no 3 quick seconds, Ok)
AND
- Smile, smile, smile.
This is the sign he needs in order to approach YOU. Very simple right?
In my experience with men in general, I can tell you that I have only had a couple of great connections. In few occasions I was just embarrassed to look at them in their eyes for more than 2 second for fears. Fears that they will see what was going on inside me.
I do remember this young man who came into my life years ago for just a brief moment. I saw him just at a glance and Gosh that moment got me. I wasn't able to look at him straight again and the next day when I saw him in the same environment we were sharing at that time he came and said to me " There is light coming out of you? " What's happening to you? I almost died right there. I knew he saw it. How could I possibly hide it? There was no way.... It was Magical! So I hope you get to experience something like that in your life at least one time. This life it's about those little moments we share with someone that make us feel special. Even if we don't get to see that person again, we know we've got a moment that will never die at least not in our memories.
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